1. Rejecting food during misunderstandings
It is one of the greatest signs of immaturity. Men should not even abandon their homes for any reason whatsoever. You could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you don’t allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on even though some women can be really troublesome.
2. Telling your wife severally that you are the head:
Even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot on CNN? It’s important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however don’t become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.
3. Issuing threats
Beating, verbal abuse to
your wife, issuing threats of divorce or
marrying another wife does
not make you a man.MEN An EMPTY barrel makes the loudest noise. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her “childish woman” part, play the mature man.
4. Reporting your wife to friends and family
When your wife offends you, correct
and talk things through. You don’t have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back.
5. Keeping malice
It is funny to know that some men keep malice. Some of them even nag, criticise, abuse and call their wives names in public. It may make you look like a “big boy” who’s in control but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home will only be a den of insults and confrontations.
6. Not helping with house chores
It is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home when she chooses to be a full time house wife.
However, it’s not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand when necessary. Watching football with newspaper in your hand every evening, not caring how stressful the house chores are will only increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly care you’ll help, just checking on her while busy could encourage and sooth her, this also makes you a good example to the kids especially the boys. Some men don’t even say “thank You” to their wives after eating, all they do is compare her with other women. It’s a shame that after having 3-4 kids some men cannot change a simple diaper or
prepare cereal meals; a big shame.